Archive for May, 2008

Arielette, is a patient soul, she has been following and guiding my willfull desires and motivations for decades now.  What I find as I reflect on my life and the choices I have made is that first, I have learned a tremendous depth of understanding through writing, reflecting and studying models that offer some explanations of what is going on in one’s psyche.  However, Arielette is not just one part of who I am, she is soul, she is connected fully to Source Energy.  She is not simply my personality, nor is she, just my body, or just my mind.  Arielette is the blueprint of all my potential.  She is there is guide me and to navigate my choices in the direction of our intention for my life.  She and I are very much the same and yet, I can make choices that lead through the mud holes, the rocky places, the desert and over mountains.  Arielette will then navigate and guide my direction toward the destination of my achieving my greatest potential.  I know there is much more for me to achieve.  I also know that the choices I have made have taken me on journeys that went round and about before arriving at the destination to achieving my potential.  This I believe is the path many of us humans take in our lives.  We really have no awareness and we are not taught the way our choices lead us toward, away or around our achievements.  But someway and in a certain time, we find our way back where we started and we know ourselves again as we vaguely knew as a hint or a glint in our childhood.   My life has been a wonderful adventure and truly I don’t regret any of it.  But having said that mainly because I feel gratitude, joy and love for all the people who shared in my experiences and for all the deep knowing I have gained from my life,  I also know that the person I am now becoming is one who is fully present and clearly visible in the now, this present moment.   I wonder what I could have already achieved, accomplished, had I been aware enough to approach my life with a plan, with greater clarity of intention and a closer connection to my soul early on in my life.   I feel truly fortunate to have had opportunities to learn knowledge, to experience the results of my actions and to explore new behaviors when I saw that some behaviors did not produce the result I truly desired.  For more that twenty years I worked to help people through therapy to trust themselves to find a path and a means to feel alive, safe and at home in their world.  Slowly I have come to trust myself, to take full responsibility for my life and to desire to share that wisdom with others.  I certainly would not want to stand in the way of anyone living out experiences that bring them an achievement that is desired.  In contrast, sometimes in life, it is truly unnecessary to always take the path less traveled.  Finding one’s own way, alone, is not always the best way to attain the desired result.  Granted though, whatever path, it must walked by one’s own initiative.  But it need not be solo, or on one’s own.  First, one person is never really alone, but we think we are and therefore, we are much more uncertain of where we are or what we are doing.  So working and playing with others is highly recommnended.  Finding a life coach who has the expertise, the experience and the capability and capacity to hold you within the direction of achieving more of your potential in a shortened amount of time is a great asset.  A coach who is able to guide you to learn the steps that allow you to elegantly and gracefully flow through life while living to the fullness your purpose and achieving more and more of your potential is like finding a mirror to your soul.  The more your soul is recognized, called forth and challenged to show you the way of its blueprint, the more you will achieve and the more you will find satisfaction in your life.  Give attention to your soul and call on a coach to guide you in listening to your soul and learning from your soul the keys to your life plan.  Learn to Play Big!  Become the person who is ready to live your dream life; the one who is fully present and clearly visible in the present moment.  There is much personal reflection necessary to resolve the unconscious blocks to success and awaken to a life of higher consciousness.  Arielette

http://www.awarenessofoneness.com  http://www.abridgebeyondcoaching.com

Read Full Post »

How do you go about solving a problem?   There are several ways that are used to define a problem.  Probably as many ways are there are ‘persons’ in any language.  ‘Person’ being as first person, I or me, us, we, our;  then, second person, as you; and then, third person, as he, she, it, they, them or their.  Do you see that problems are often defined as belonging to someone, either third person, second person and first person.  When we define a problem beginning with the second or third person, we are then defining ourself as a victim.  Now, maybe that is the case, but let’s look more closely.  If we define the problem out side of first person, me or I, then who is responsible for this problem and who can implement the solution?  If I feel that there is a problem, then I must define the problem based on what I consider the problem to be.  And I must take full responsiblity for discovering and implementing a solution.  I must decide in order to resolve the problem.  I might resort to deciding to do nothing and therefore, abide and live with the problem.  This is not really the best kind of solution, but sometimes it works to give us a new perspective to find a different definition of the problem and therefore a different and better solution.  I may also decide to try a number of obvious possible solutions to see what result I get.  This is like the ‘stab in the dark’ kind of solution.  Very often it does not solve the problem and only makes the problem more acutely painful.  Of course it could then get the other person’s attention thus generating some discussion about the problem.  But if I am not willing to own the thing that really annoys me, causes me a problem, then I will not adequately define the problem in order to discover an adequate solution.  I have learned that I can communicate only my problem to another person and ask to seek for a solution.        

Self-Reflecting as Soul Reflection                                

When we connect with our Soul and have an inner deep discussion about this problem with our Soul, we are self-reflecting, we are putting the problem into words and we are listening to our Soul reflect back.        Have your ever felt a desire to know about something, to find what someone else might be saying about a particular topic?  You might go to a library to seek out the topic, to find an answer.  Or you might go to the internet and search for your topic to find the resources available with possible answers.  In this process you are lead by your inner voice which suggests key words for your topic and the answer you seek.   Ultimately you will come up with information on your topic and then you begin to refine your search for an answer.  Always your Soul is guiding you whether you are intentionaly asking for it or not.  Your Soul is focused on the solution, not on the problem.  So your Soul is immediately seeking to guide you to the best solution.  Self-reflecting, listening to your Soul, is then asking the questions that focus on the solutions.  When we focus on discovery of the solution, after taking full responsibility for the clear definition of the problem and the certain creation of the problem, we are then open to perceiving the solution.  Our Soul is truly about our refining and redefining who we are by releasing what no longer contributes to provide us with a fulfilling life.  When we connect with our Soul, we are ready to hear solutions.  We may not like the solution we receive, but when we allow that we asked and we are willing to receive what is being given, we can let go of our resistance to receive and accept the answer and take action to implement the solution.  With our Soul, we do not really have problems, we truly are provided opportunities to let go of that which no longer serves our wellbeing.  We are available to learn, to preceive, and to know more deeply what life is truly showing us. Our Soul wants to bring us into the experience of joy, of love, health and wealth that is directly available to us, that allows us to align within and without and to accept the solutions that bring us easily into living a life of fulfillment.  With Soul we can awaken to discover new solutions to old problems, easily, moment to moment.  If you would like a FREE report, “The Seven Steps to Living a Fulfilling Life”  come to http://www.awarenessofoneness.com   May Much Love Flow Through Your Life Always,  Arielette 

Read Full Post »