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How do you go about solving a problem?   There are several ways that are used to define a problem.  Probably as many ways are there are ‘persons’ in any language.  ‘Person’ being as first person, I or me, us, we, our;  then, second person, as you; and then, third person, as he, she, it, they, them or their.  Do you see that problems are often defined as belonging to someone, either third person, second person and first person.  When we define a problem beginning with the second or third person, we are then defining ourself as a victim.  Now, maybe that is the case, but let’s look more closely.  If we define the problem out side of first person, me or I, then who is responsible for this problem and who can implement the solution?  If I feel that there is a problem, then I must define the problem based on what I consider the problem to be.  And I must take full responsiblity for discovering and implementing a solution.  I must decide in order to resolve the problem.  I might resort to deciding to do nothing and therefore, abide and live with the problem.  This is not really the best kind of solution, but sometimes it works to give us a new perspective to find a different definition of the problem and therefore a different and better solution.  I may also decide to try a number of obvious possible solutions to see what result I get.  This is like the ‘stab in the dark’ kind of solution.  Very often it does not solve the problem and only makes the problem more acutely painful.  Of course it could then get the other person’s attention thus generating some discussion about the problem.  But if I am not willing to own the thing that really annoys me, causes me a problem, then I will not adequately define the problem in order to discover an adequate solution.  I have learned that I can communicate only my problem to another person and ask to seek for a solution.        

Self-Reflecting as Soul Reflection                                

When we connect with our Soul and have an inner deep discussion about this problem with our Soul, we are self-reflecting, we are putting the problem into words and we are listening to our Soul reflect back.        Have your ever felt a desire to know about something, to find what someone else might be saying about a particular topic?  You might go to a library to seek out the topic, to find an answer.  Or you might go to the internet and search for your topic to find the resources available with possible answers.  In this process you are lead by your inner voice which suggests key words for your topic and the answer you seek.   Ultimately you will come up with information on your topic and then you begin to refine your search for an answer.  Always your Soul is guiding you whether you are intentionaly asking for it or not.  Your Soul is focused on the solution, not on the problem.  So your Soul is immediately seeking to guide you to the best solution.  Self-reflecting, listening to your Soul, is then asking the questions that focus on the solutions.  When we focus on discovery of the solution, after taking full responsibility for the clear definition of the problem and the certain creation of the problem, we are then open to perceiving the solution.  Our Soul is truly about our refining and redefining who we are by releasing what no longer contributes to provide us with a fulfilling life.  When we connect with our Soul, we are ready to hear solutions.  We may not like the solution we receive, but when we allow that we asked and we are willing to receive what is being given, we can let go of our resistance to receive and accept the answer and take action to implement the solution.  With our Soul, we do not really have problems, we truly are provided opportunities to let go of that which no longer serves our wellbeing.  We are available to learn, to preceive, and to know more deeply what life is truly showing us. Our Soul wants to bring us into the experience of joy, of love, health and wealth that is directly available to us, that allows us to align within and without and to accept the solutions that bring us easily into living a life of fulfillment.  With Soul we can awaken to discover new solutions to old problems, easily, moment to moment.  If you would like a FREE report, “The Seven Steps to Living a Fulfilling Life”  come to http://www.awarenessofoneness.com   May Much Love Flow Through Your Life Always,  Arielette 

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Inside you very likely know exactly what you want for your life,

but can you express the description of what you want and who you want to be?

If you are not able to say clearly what you want for your life,

then read on for you are in for a surprise.

Your ability to say or write what you truly know about

your life is an active force within you.

The problem is a blockage between the knowing

that is alive within you and your ability to mentally

connect with that source of knowing.

Through practicing daily journal writing, topical focused

writing sessions with music and daily writing with focus

on my intention for completing daily tasks, I have found

that I am making a connection with the true knowingness

within my heart and soul.  A sense of truth is emerging and

I find my writing flowing with greater clarity about what I

want to express.

When I began to write about what I thought and felt inside,

I found it a great struggle. I remember the first time I wrote

out my own thought about a conclusion I came about on a topic

of interest to me. I thought at the time that it was a great revelation

to me. Some years later when I came across the saved scrap of

paper in a drawer, I remembered having written it, and as I read it,

I saw that the sentence made little sense as it was written. I realized

that I was so very frightened of saying what was really true within me.

I wonder if this is true for you.

Do you feel a great desire to express yourself and yet hold back

due to a great fear of saying what you really think, believe and feel

about what you have experienced in life?

If you are a shy, quiet person who feels inadequate about

speaking up, but you know that inside you are a dynamo

just waiting to make an appearance, then you are ready to

take a step toward a plan for making a change in your life.

You might say that you have a Genie inside just waiting to

step forward, ask you what you want and

begin granting your wishes!

That Genie is the image of the true you.

You could say also that this is your soul.

Getting to know the true you is what life is truly

all about. You can find your way into the true you

and live out of the truth of you while you continually

update the design of your life as you go forth through your life.

Your destiny is then in your responsible hands.

Your destiny is always in your hands, but until you

commit to being fully responsible for you life and the

plan of your life, your destiny is being lived out through

your reactive thoughts, feelings and behaviors.

This is the source of so much drama in your life.

Are you ready to change that? 

I have found my way through the maze of my story.

The results are truly amazing.  I have found a greater clarity.

My energy is high, I am able to focus for a longer period of time

and I love doing what I have set out to accomplish.

You too can find your way and connect with your soul.

 Much Love and Joy!


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